When cancer happens, doctors rush to start treatment. But we’re often left to deal with the emotional effects of the diagnosis on our own. That’s what makes cancer such a Big Ordeal.

For most of us, cancer is an unexpected ordeal that takes over life. If we’re lucky, it consumes us for a short time before fading into the background. If we’re unlucky, it remains in focus, or worse, becomes the centerpiece of our remaining days. But none of us gets through it without some lasting impact.

The emotional toll may be subtle or dramatic. It may influence our personal or professional lives, be on display for all to see, or buried deep within our souls. But there’s no denying it. Everything is different when we hear we have cancer.

Nothing can truly prepare you for the roller coaster of emotions unleashed by diagnosis. But, The Big Ordeal will help you anticipate, understand and manage the turmoil ahead. It will help you understand why you feel the way you do, making coping with cancer a little easier. In Coping Insights you will find information on neuroscience, psychology and oncology to help demystify the experience. And, you will find suggestions from professionals and fellow patients who have been there.

The Big Ordeal is also about patients and survivors and caregivers, sharing stories to help reduce the sense of isolation, inspire hope, combat fear and encourage healing. You can read Patient Stories  and Caregiver Stories to see what others have shared.  And you can share your own story. Read on. Share. There’s a good chance someone you know is coping with cancer.

Patient Stories

Linda
Mary K
Mary K
Leslie
Leslie
Kim
Rebecca
Rebecca

Coping Insights

The Death of Sleep
The Death of Sleep
Coping with Cancer Pain
Coping with
Cancer Pain
Gut Reaction Diet
Gut Reaction Diet
Book Excerpt: The Science of Recovery
Science of Recovery
Coping with Cancer – Q & A
Cynthia Talks About Cancer Emotions
Video:
Cancer Emotions

Blog

Cancer Dream State
Cancer Dream State
September Blues
September Blues
The End of Planning
The End of Planning
Listen to the MockingBird
Listen to the MockingBird
Caramelizing Onions
Caramelizing Onions
Nurturing a Seed of Hope
Seed of Hope

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